Why We Should Care About the Environment, and Easy Ways To Help

“What’s the water that you first fell in love with? What’s the water that you love the most right now in your life? What’s your go-to water?”

Dr. Wallace J Nichols, author of Blue Mind, asks this series of questions anytime he’s addressing an audience, and he did so in a virtual Q&A for Creative Mornings last September. These questions are personal ones, intended to remind people of the stake they have in conservation— rather than thinking about the Earth or the environment as an abstract concept that’s too huge to consider, he invites each person to think about which little piece of the Earth they have an emotional attachment to.

In this year where all of us have experienced sadness and grief in such large quantities, Nichols stresses the importance of returning to wherever your water is. “The main theme of Blue Mind really is that we undervalue water because we have a hard time talking about the cognitive, emotional, psychological, social, creative and spiritual health benefits which are vast and universal for all people.” The water has been with us as long as we’ve been human; we need it to survive not just on a physical level but on all deeper levels as well.

The same thing is true of our connection to nature as a whole. When we don’t spend time reflecting on how important it is to our wellbeing, it’s easy to forget that we need nature to survive and that we’re always better off with more of it in our lives. Devoting time to remembering the special parts of the environment that are important to each of us individually not only helps to us keep awareness of what we have to lose, but it can also help give us a place to start when it comes to helping out.

The truth is that the Earth needs our help; threats like the influx of plastic into the ocean, pollution, water shortage and climate change are putting all of our favorite green and blue places in jeopardy. Luckily, there are so many little ways for us to do our part and start building a brighter future for our planet.

Connecting to the Planet

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The first step when it comes to helping the environment is just to find your emotional connection to it. Staying grounded in your personal motivation can help remind you what you’re working to preserve. Think about your favorite green spot or beach, and how important it is to you, and it’s easier to feel motivated to help keep it safe.

As we’ve all been cooped up, it might be harder than usual for us to feel connected to the Earth and engaged in helping to preserve it. To refresh your global perspective, try picking up some new streaming material to transport yourself to some of the most incredible places on the globe that need our help the most. Whether you want to get a wide scope of all the biodiversity this planet has to offer by watching a series like Planet Earth or want to closely follow a specific cause like scientists working to preserve coral reefs in Chasing Coral, finding a fresh perspective on how special our planet is can be a great place to start.

The easiest way to feel more connected to the environment is simply to get out in it. Has it been a while since you visited the beach or went on your favorite hike? It’s always good to remind ourselves of the things we truly love about nature by spending some time outside. Whether you decide to spend a day in the wilderness or simply take a book to your local park for the afternoon, taking a moment to strengthen your connection to the planet will help you feel more grounded in it.

Getting Involved Locally

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Chances are, you can take a step today to help keep your favorite piece of nature safe and clean, whether it’s a park, trail or beach. Try checking social media or event sites like EventBrite to see if there are any beach, river or park cleanups in your area; if there isn’t already a cleanup event in the works, try organizing one of your own!

If you have a passion for wildlife, see if a local wildlife preserve could use volunteers, docents, or even donations in the form of supplies. It’s easy to get more engaged and connected to nature’s importance when you start to look in your own backyard!

Easy Ways To Eliminate Single-Use Plastic

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Single-use plastic has been wreaking havoc on our environment, and often it means that some of this plastic ends up in our oceans. This problem has only gotten more urgent over COVID, when disposable takeout containers, plastic utensils, and other single-use goods have become necessary parts of our life. This is why it can be so powerful to find places where we can avoid plastic altogether.

Have you ever thought about how much plastic it takes just to keep buying the same cleaning products, soaps or shampoos over and over again? Many products, like multipurpose sprays and hand soaps, are mostly made of water, meaning that it’s not hard to create the same product at home while skipping the extra plastic and the price tag.

You can buy soap capsules from subscription companies like Blueland and then simply add them to some water in a glass bottle, sparing yourself a trip to the store and a single-use container. Purchasing laundry detergent powder instead of liquid can take one more plastic bottle out of the equation. There are many formulas online for multi-purpose cleaners that use household ingredients like white vinegar, baking soda, lemon juice and essential oils, giving you the ability to make more whenever you want and store it in a reusable glass spray bottle.

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Many of the products we use in the shower also have no-plastic counterparts that are kinder to our environment. Several companies sell shampoo, conditioner and body wash all in bar form, no plastic packaging required. Products like refillable deodorant, lotion bars and tooth powder are even available, making a plastic-free bathroom more possible than ever.

If you go through hair ties by the bushel, you might get stressed out wondering where all the lost ones (and the plastic they’re made of) end up. Luckily, Terra Ties has a great, eco-friendly alternative, made from natural rubber and organic cotton that work just as well as traditional elastic ties without any of the guilt when you misplace them.

One of the biggest places we’ve seen single-use plastic pile up this year is in the collective online shopping habit we’ve picked up in quarantine. Luckily, convenience doesn’t have to mean waste! Package Free is an online storefront where you can buy a lot of essentials and they’ll come to you without any wasteful packaging that will end up in a landfill. Package Free even sells certain products that we use everyday, like body wash and conditioner, in metal containers that you can send in to be refilled, meaning no waste gets created at all!

Replace Disposable Items With Reusable Ones

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Did you know that many of the disposable products you go through every day have reusable counterparts? Replacing a few of these items in your home won’t just help reduce your impact on the environment but will save you money in the long run. For instance, if you depend on your Keurig to start your morning on the right foot, consider buying a reusable K-cup, which you can fill with grounds of your choice. This simple switch can help keep hundreds of K-cups out of landfills. If you’re a fan of iced beverages, a handful of metal or glass straws on hand will save you from needing to buy plastic ones that will never biodegrade.

Going reusable for your leftovers has never been more possible; a roll of beeswax food wrap, reusable silicone bags or glass food containers will last longer and prevent waste. If you’ve got a dog, biodegradable waste bags are a great way of making sure your furry friend isn’t impacting the environment for the worse.

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So many disposable items around your house have permanent alternatives— when you start to look around, the sky is the limit. Reusable dryer balls can provide the same benefits as dryer sheets while lasting longer. Bamboo toothbrushes are entirely compostable after you throw them away, making them a kinder option for the Earth than regular plastic toothbrushes. Investing in a menstrual cup instead of traditional sanitary products can save dozens of trips to the store for sanitary products and prevent a lot of waste.

Watch Out For Microplastics

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For years we’ve known that certain products release tiny pieces of plastic into our water supply when we use them in the sink or shower; these can end up in the ocean and sometimes might even make their way back onto our plates in the fish we eat. One easy way to avoid products with microplastics is to steer clear of facial cleansers that use microbeads for exfoliants. Many brands like St. Ives and Burt’s Bees use natural alternatives like ground peach stones and walnuts for exfoliators, making them safer to use and more natural.

Many household sponges are made of a mixture of cellulose and either polyester or nylon, which aren’t biodegradable and can’t be recycled. When we use these materials to scrub dishes, it can release nonbiodegradable plastic fibers into the water. Using a natural sponge cuts out these fibers altogether, and all you have to do to keep it clean is let it soak in a mixture of water and baking soda for fifteen minutes every few weeks.

Conserve Power and Water

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Not only does finding ways to save water and power put more money in your pocket, but it can help to reduce the impact on the environment as well. Making easy substitutions like energy efficient devices or LED lightbulbs can help reduce your energy usage (and the price tag that comes with it) with very little effort. Wrapping or covering all foods and drinks in your refrigerator is a small way to reduce the moisture in your fridge, meaning that the compressor doesn’t have to work as hard or expend as much energy. And did you know that running even a small load of dishes in your dishwasher saves more water than doing those dishes by hand? Making few small changes won’t just save you money but it can help to reduce the amount of power and water we use up every day as well.

This planet is important to each of us, not just because it’s the place we live but because it’s the place that gives us life. When you think about the green spaces you love or the parts of nature that are central to some of your favorite memories, you can’t help but want to do something to help keep those same things intact for the next generation. Whether it’s investing in a cool new product or just staying mindful of everything the environment has to offer us, connecting to and investing in the Earth around us will always help us feel more whole.

Resources for Fighting Racial Inequality

Our country’s pain right now is impossible to ignore. On top of historic unemployment and an unprecedented pandemic, we are now witnessing a nationwide demonstration against systemic racial discrimination, oppression and brutality. When we are confronted with this amount of mass trauma, pain, distress, and injustice, it can be disorienting and paralyzing. It can be hard to know what to do or how to help, and it’s easy to get overwhelmed and succumb to apathy. If you’re looking for clear ways you can help, or want to learn more about what protesters are struggling for, here are some resources.

Get Informed

One of the greatest actions an ally can take is making the effort to learn about the ways that racial inequality shapes this country and impacts its citizens. There are so many incredible resources out there by many sources. I encourage everyone to do their own research; taking the time to learn and invest in your own perspective can yield amazing results.

If you don’t know where to begin, here are a few places you could start:

Vogue, Elle, Buzzfeed and the New York Times all have lists of book recommendations if you’re trying to learn more about the way racism has shaped and continues to impact the experiences of people of color in America.

Campaign Zero works to develop and support policies that reduce police brutalities and police-involved fatalities. Their website clearly lays out the ten policies they are backing to improve racial justice in the US and lets you track the status of each policy in your city and state.

The New York Times’ 1619 Project is an exhaustively researched look into the origins of slavery in America and the way it has shaped American history ever since.

Charles Preston has compiled a Black History Month Library with free pdfs of important works by black authors, study guides, cultural guides and more.

Donate

One of the easiest and most effective forms of action is simply putting some of your money in the hands of an organization prepared to do good with it.

Following your heart is always the best way to find a cause to invest in; I always recommend putting a lot of research into the causes you support so that they feel personal to you.

This Victim Donation Page created by a member of the movement has links to the GoFundMe pages for the families of victims like George Floyd and Ahmaud Arbery.

You can donate to support Black Lives Matter in the fight to end state-sanctioned violence against people of color.

Take the time to find a cause that needs you, and if you’re able to give even a little, you’ll know that you’re directly providing relief to someone in need.

Sign Petitions

This an unstable economic time for so many people. If you’re unable to donate financially to causes right now, there are still ways to lend a hand.

Here is an easy list of petitions you can sign to take a stand against racial oppression and injustice.

Black Lives Matter also has a petitions page; right now they are advocating for a more urgent federal response to the threat of COVID-19 as well as tracking of the disproportionate ways COVID has impacted communities of color.

Contact Representatives

Nationwide protests this weekend erupted after Minnesotan representatives initially refused to arrest former officer Derek Chauvin for kneeling on the neck of George Floyd, who was not resisting arrest, until he died. You can contact the District Attorney and the Minneapolis Mayor to demand that the officers involved face justice.

Minneapolis Mayor’s Office, Jacob Frey: 612.673.2100
Minneapolis District Attorney, Mike Freeman: 612.348.5550

If you’re unsure of what to say, this free service will draft an email for you that you can send to Minneapolis representatives.

Being faced with an injustice as monumental and heartbreaking as racial inequality can feel debilitating. It’s easy to feel that there’s nothing one person can do to solve an issue so large and ingrained; we can feel drowned in the amount of grief and powerlessness that the world holds for us on some days.

The fight begins when we resist the voice that tells us there’s no point in trying. You can take a small step right now and start to be a part of the solution. You can join the thousands of people who are already working to make sure our children grow up with a safer, fairer future and together our work can change the world.

Every journey begins with one small step; are you ready to begin?

Carrie Ann Inaba Shares Her 7 Favorite Candles That Will Brighten Your Day

When we’re considering how to change the way our environment feels, we might look at aesthetics, colors, space, or light. It might not occur to us to consider how big a role scents play in our everyday lives. Smell is one of our most inherent senses; scents can define eras, places, people and even vivid memories for us. I can remember what my childhood home smells like, the forest scents from my favorite hike, the smell of my best friend’s house, all of these scents transporting me to a place that still lives on inside my heart. Scents are such an important part of my life, and specifically my home, which is why I’ll almost always have a candle burning. I’ll burn something that smells floral when I need a lift, citrus when I need to cleanse, sweet when I’m craving comfort, musk or sandalwood when I need peace and clarity.

Here are some of my favorite candles. Each one is special to me and in a different way, each one helps me feel more at home. I hope one of these can bring new energy to your home.

Bergamot Rose from Voluspa

A longtime favorite in my home, I love the way the smell of deep bergamot and sweet roses fill the space.

Japanese Citrus from Brooklyn Candle Studio

I don’t know of a scent that feels cleaner or crisper than fresh oranges wafting through the house. This candle reminds me of warm, sunny days and clear blue skies, even when it’s dark and stormy outside.

Do Not Disturb from Evil Queen

Roses are often symbolic for love, and nothing smells more like love than this candle. Real flower petals, sweet sandalwood and vanilla always make me feel like I’m in a warm embrace.

Sandalwood Rose from PF Candle Co

This subtle scent of these flowers always reminds me of being on a terrace at dusk. It’s a dark scent that helps to bring a subtle, calm energy to my space.

Sunday Morning from Brooklyn Candle Studio

I try to have fresh flowers in my house as often as I’m able, but for all those occasions I don’t have them, this candle is there for me. This scent brings all the brightness, refreshment and life of a real bouquet.

Black Pearls from Baobab

There’s something so luxurious about the deep scent of black rose and ginger contained in a jar that’s a work of art itself.

Creativity from Evil Queen

Evil Queen has so many creative scent blends but this is one of my favorites. The combination of deep greens with some sharp spices is always unexpected. It’s great when I’m in a rut and need a bit of a change to my routine.

Do you have a favorite candle you light when you need a boost or some extra relaxation? Tag @carrieannconversations in a post or story on Instagram so we can see what scents make up our different worlds.

Sounds I Love That Summon The Energy I Want to Invite

There is so much value in making our living spaces comfortable for ourselves. Being able to feel like ourselves at home is an act of self-care. This doesn’t always have to mean rearranging furniture or making new purchases. It’s not necessarily the first thing we think of, but sound can be an easy way to make our environment more peaceful. I’ll often have music on in the house to help amplify whatever mood I’m trying to achieve.

Music is great for times we feel overwhelmed with thoughts or feelings we don’t know how to process because it speaks to something deeper inside of ourselves. Sometimes listening to my favorite artist can have a bigger impact on my mood than anything I’ve read that day. Our unconscious selves speak so many languages and it’s good to vary the ways that we make contact with them.

Playing music can give us access to a new level of control over our space. I don’t know about you but I can often feel disturbed by the sounds of traffic outside, noisy neighbors or car alarms. It can make us feel claustrophobic or irritated when we feel our space is being invaded by noise. Putting on your favorite playlist or artist can provide some peace and escape.

Music can work magic to summon whatever energy you want to invite, whether it’s energy and happiness or stillness and calm. I’ve made a couple of playlists of some of my favorite music in the hopes that this week can be one of peace, rest, and happiness for all of us.

If you’ve tuned into my live streams on Instagram, you’ve already gotten a taste of this playlist. This is the music that starts my day, gets me out of bed and inspires me to do something each day that I’m proud of, even if that’s something as simple as taking care of myself so I can get up again tomorrow.

Calm Weekend is all about lowering blood pressure, shutting out all the chaos and giving yourself a moment to embrace the peace in the middle of chaos. I hope it makes your home a restorative haven to spend the weekend.

High Energy is filled with my favorite happy music, to give us a boost when we need it most. It’s always shocking to me how much better I feel after I move around a bit; hopefully at least a few of these songs inspire you to dance in your kitchen, have a laugh, and add a bit of levity to your day.

This is a playlist of long, ambient tracks that make it easy to give yourself time to sit still and look within. Whether you’re already on a meditation journey, looking to start one, or just need soft sounds to help you fall asleep, these songs always help put me in a more tranquil and open state of mind.

While so much about music is universal, it’s also extremely personal. If you have the time, try putting together a few playlists for yourself full of the music that makes you feel happiest, calmest, or most grateful. Take some time to curate sounds for an environment that helps you feel at home.

Let me know what kind of playlist ends up suiting you the best by tagging @carrieannconversations on Instagram— I’d love to know if this works for you, and what music helps bring you peace in your home.

Quick Fixes to Create an Energy Shift in Your Life

Life is a rollercoaster.  For those of us in California, it has been an extremely difficult time, with the wildfires and the shootings just last week in Agoura Hills, I think we are all feeling the tensions of life upon us.  For those of us across the country, the recent elections have caused a lot of emotions to be stirred up.  I don’t like to talk about politics and I don’t intend to here, but I wanted to mention it because I do believe we need to give ourselves permission to notice that the world has been heavier than usual lately.  For those of us who are sensitive and empathetic, and even those who are not,  it is more challenging than ever for us to keep our spirits positive and uplifted for ourselves and for our family and friends.  When we are bogged down with heavy thoughts and carrying energy that is not ours in our hearts, we don’t function at our best.  And in these tumultuous times, we need to be functioning at our best.  We all need to practice some self care on a more regular basis to keep ourselves clear and open to positivity – even if we have to create it ourselves.  

So, today I wanted to share some ways to do an energetic reset.  A year ago, I would have said, once a month, it’s good to take some time to pamper oneself, release the things that attached to you energetically and have weighed you down.  But now, I think it’s important to do something to reset and refocus once a week.  I mean…if you actually can, I would even dare to suggest you do something once a day.  But I know for some of you that thought could be overwhelming.  So, take it at your own pace.  Whether you choose to reset once a day, or once a week, it’s sad to say that with the constant barrage of information from the many forms of media we live with now, we need more ways to reset and clear our energy so we can live a healthier life.

TAKE AN EPSOM SALT BATH

I like lavender, but regular simple epsom salt from your local drugstore will do just fine.

I suggest, adding one to two cups of epsom salt to your bath and soaking for between 20-30 minutes before bedtime.  The magnesium is really good for your body – and will help to relax you before bed. It is a natural anti-inflammatory and exfoliant and it’s good for muscle aches and pains.  The theory is that the skin which is our largest organ absorbs it right into the system and  the magnesium goes to work.  For me, I find it helps me to sleep as well.  There are many articles on the benefits of epsom salt baths if you’d like to read them.  I like to have a little ritual around my baths.  So I suggest that you create your own.  Maybe light a candle ( and blow it out when you are finished) and play some relaxing music.  I like to write when I’m in the bath tub.  It keeps me in the tub longer since I sometimes have a hard time sitting still for that long.  But since the water will get all over the pages, I use a different journal that I don’t mind if it gets wet and then I transfer what I wrote later when I get in bed.  You could also read, or you could just close your eyes and let your mind go blank.  When you get out, take your time toweling off and apply your favorite lotion or body oils and appreciate your body for all it does to keep you going, send it loving energy and give it your fullest attention.  It will appreciate it. Then get into your favorite pajamas ( or not ) and get into bed while your body is still warm.  

GO OUTSIDE AND GROUND

Even though we always feel busy and in this day and age we wear shoes a lot, grounding is a good practice.  To ground, go outside in nature and be barefoot for a half an hour.  If you can’t do that, just go outside and be present for a half an hour.  When ever I need a quick shift in the middle of the day, I go outside and sit by a tree or a bush or on the grass and it makes a huge difference. Do not take your phone.  Just be… notice the trees, notice the scents, look at the colors and absorb that natural beauty around you. It’s important to reconnect energetically to the earth.  It will also help you to remember to be conscious of our earth mother and remember to take care of the planet we live on and appreciate all that she/ he/ it gives us.

The earth has a subtle electrical charge – like a battery and we as people also work better when we are grounded because truth be told, our bodies operate with electrical energy.  Our whole system runs on these types of frequencies.  And we need to “plug in” every once in a while.  I think people who go hiking benefit from this.  I know when I was hiking once a week, I felt so much better.  But when I can’t hike, I go outside and sit on the grass for a half an hour and it makes a huge shift.  It’s like taking a mini vacation.  So, either go and hike, sit at the beach, sit by a tree, stand and meditate with your barefeet nestled into the grass or sad and recharge.  You’ll feel so much better and it’s the simplest method that requires nothing but your own presence and this incredible natural world we live in.  Reset and recharge.

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Create your own grounding ritual and reconnect with the world around you.

MEDITATION PRACTICE

I recently learned how to do Kriya Yoga and the meditation techniques that come with it.  I noticed a huge difference in my whole state of mind.  This practice takes me 30 – 40 minutes and I try to do it 3 times a week at the least.  It’s a visualization and breathing practice which works well for me because I am such a visual person.  We aren’t allowed to share it, because you are supposed to learn the technique from a master and I am not a trained master, but I want to share that what’s important is to find a technique that works for you.  I also have an app that I use called Insight Timer, that I use often before I go to bed.  But I often fall asleep before I really get to meditate.  For me, meditation is about breathing well and pausing with yourself. It’s about being with yourself and noticing things without getting too involved in your thoughts. I know meditation can be hard for some people but I suggest trying many different techniques.  If you are new to it, I’d say start with the Insight Timer App.  They have so many different types of meditations that I think you will be able to find one that suits you.  It’s important to take a little “me” break, listening to empowering words, or even just silence.  Trust yourself to choose something that works especially for you.  And then practice.  Remember it’s called a practice because it’s not about doing it perfectly.  So, enjoy the process and reset your mind.

If you are interested in learning more about Kriya yoga, you can visit: https://www.ananda.org/kriya-yoga Or www.siddhanath.org

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Meditation and mindfulness help us to find inner peace.

JUICE FAST

When I feel bogged down, I also do juice fasts.  There are many juice bars that have figured out the correct nutrient needs of the body and have predesigned three day cleanses or even five day cleanses. For me, I just do a one day juice fast, to reset.  I’ve done the 21 day Lemon Cayenne Pepper cleanse and that was profound and I felt clearer than I’ve ever felt but it’s a huge commitment and may not be the right choice for everyone.  I want to  remind people to check with their own doctors before doing anything too intensive.  But a one day juice fast feels good.  It reminds you what it feels like to ingest only what nature intended for us, nothing processed and nothing animal based – just plant based goodness.  It’s like breathing in fresh air all day.  And when you do that, you feel connected to yourself again.  Think of this as a diet reset.  Reset what you ingest and and remind your body what it really wants. ( As I write this blog, I have spinach, apple, ginger, turmeric, cucumber and lemon sitting on my counter waiting for me to turn it into a pressed juice because today I need a little digestive reset).  It works.. and I’m looking forward to it!  

DO SOMETHING KIND FOR SOMEONE ELSE

This is something you can make a daily practice out of.  With our busy schedules, I don’t mean for you to take on more things than you can handle, but when you are feeling bogged down with responsibility or feeling that life is bringing you down, one of the best ways to shift that is to do something nice for someone else.  It can be something simple, like just smiling and saying, “Hello” to a stranger.  A smile does a lot for everyone.  When we meet eyes with a stranger, and smile, it reminds us to connect, that we are not so different from each other, and also, it reminds us that we are not so alone in this world. You can take this further as well,  you can donate your time at an organization that does the kind of work you are passionate about.  For me, my passion is animals. So, if you share that passion, you could stop by an animal shelter and just spend some time with the animals, giving them love and affection.  Who knows, you may decide you want to volunteer on a regular basis and help out in other ways.  You could donate old towels or blankets which most animals shelters need to create warm soft spaces for the animals.  Volunteering is very rewarding and good for the soul.  Tony Robbins (the self help guru) stresses the importance of contribution, and giving back to feel fulfilled as a person and I would agree.  

I know that many of us get into social media and get lost was e click on page after page of stories..…I know social media can be a problem. But also, there are opportunities for goodness in social media as well. A simple way to break up a “deep dive” into social media is to find a cause and stop and read up about it, and sign the petition.  Instead of scrolling on through, stop and do something.   It’s simple but it’s a good deed and good deeds help spread the goodness and shift our own personal energy.  You can also donate.  It’s as simple as a click of a button and donations don’t have to be huge.  You could forgo your cup of coffee and donate that $5 to a cause that helps those in need.  Trust me, it will feel good and shift your energy for the better. 

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Helping others helps our own overall health.

WRITE OUT OUR INTENTIONS

I have found that when I’m really feeling heavy and maybe even a bit lost under the weight of life and the pressures of work, or even just the invisible pressures from the complicated world we are living in, I write out my intentions.  Each day as we grow from the experiences of the lives we live, we learn things and therefore, our goals and desires shift.  I have found that by writing my goals and my intentions, along with taking time to notice and express gratitude for the things in my life, I get centered. Writing things down, especially intentions-  really helps me to center myself. It reminds me of who I am so I’m not caught up in other people’s energies or ideas about me or about the world they live in.  It reminds me of what is important to me, and where I’m going, and why I do the things I do.  This makes the days feel like they have more purpose.  And that gives me more satisfaction.  It gives my life direction when I feel lost.  And allows my mind to dream and shift into my creative mind space instead of living to meet the expectation of life.  Ti’s like a mini mind vacation – but with purposed.  By doing this more often than not, it’s also a good way to check in with myself and shift where I’m going based upon the reality of my life experiences.  The goal or intention or dream – whatever you want to call it, is then something that is also a part of my reality and shifts accordingly instead of being a stagnant unattainable thing. But looking at it this way, it becomes more of a  living thing, and a part of my day to day life.  This makes it more real to me and then in the end, more easily attained because it’s not so far away.  Write out your intentions and check in with them – remembering your intentions are really just a reflection of you. So this is a way to check in with you.  I keep my intentions where I can see them – to remind me visually of where I was when I last wrote them, and where I want to go in the future.  Then, I readjust them as I live, learn and grow. A reset can be as simple as reminding ourselves of who we are and what we wan, then setting that intention out into the universe.  It’s a way to reset and work towards manifesting the life we want to create which I imagine would be a very good thing for all of us.

CRYSTALS AND BURNING SAGE

When all else fails and I just can’t seem to shake the negative energy, I go to my crystals and I burn some sage. I am not an expert on crystals, but I work with a very special woman who is a crystal healer among other things -she also works with plant based medicine and energy and her work is so powerful. Sometimes, I just sit with my crystals and burn sage and clear out the energy. The crystals hold the energy of the earth so it’s similar to grounding but more specific. ( Be careful when burning sage though, make sure you have something to catch the ashes and be sure the sage is 100% put out before you leave it unattended). I love the way the sage smells and I love the process going through the house with the intentions to clear the energy, wether it’s the sage at work or my own mind, it always does the trick. I open the windows and walk through my home usually with some beautiful music by Donna Delory playing in the background. ( She is an incredible singer and song writer who writes soothing and sacred music. Donna and I were on the Madonna Girlie Show Tour together back in 1993. She sang back up and I danced and I’ve been a fan of hers very since.) Choose what works for you, music or no music, and use ancient and natural tools to clear out the energy in your home to reset.

Be careful when you burn sage… but make it a beautiful energy cleansing ritual.

As you can see, there are so many ways to reset…I hope this post inspires you to find even more ways to reset and take a break from the pressures of life, so that we can get right back to it with better energy and more focus and joy . Here are a few more suggestions, but I hope you will share with me some of your ways to reset.  Life is meant to be lived in connection with each other so I hope you will share with me as I have shared with you. 

Spending time with animals is always a good way to recharge happy positive energy. (This is Peanut….she’s the boss.)

MORE IDEAS TO RESET FOR A BETTER LIFE…

✨READ A GOOD BOOK

✨PLAY MUSIC

✨SING OUTLOUD

✨PLAY WITH ANIMALS OR SPEND TIME WITH ANIMALS

✨DANCE IN YOUR LIVING ROOM TO YOUR FAVORITE SONG

✨PAINT

✨WRITE

✨COOK YOURSELF A REALLY HEALTHY MEAL

✨MOVE FURNITURE

✨CLEAN OUT A DRAWER

✨DO ANYTHING CREATIVE THAT FILLS YOUR SOUL…

✨HUG YOUR LOVED ONES ( this is the best one – it releases serotonin and just makes you feel great.)

You get the picture.  Anything can be an energy shift if you do it mindfully.  Really absorb the moment – whether it’s a half an hour or five minutes, make those moments yours.  Give yourself options but make it a part of your ritual and routine.  My wish for you is to create time for yourself –  a half-hour every day for YOU! And if you can’t do that, try for a half an hour once a week and then work your way up to every day.  I think you will find that the benefits will be tremendous.  What you put into you, you will get back and be able to put back into the world.  And the world needs us all to be our best selves right now.

It’s all personal…remember to enjoy the process.