6 Ideas From Carrie Ann Inaba for Making a Vision Board That Resonates

CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS | Carrie Ann Inaba's Ideas For Making A Vision Board That Resonates

Contrary to what the common conception might be, vision boards aren’t about magically getting your wishes granted, or expecting the perfect house, career or love interest fall into your life as soon as you put up a picture. Like all intention setting, making a vision board is an act of focusing your desires.

How are you ever going to get what you want if you don’t even know what that looks like? You might want success in your career, but does that look like climbing the ladder at your current company, going back to school, changing fields entirely? You want to be happier, but will this come from reconnecting with old friends, discovering a new hobby, focusing on a creative project that’s fallen by the wayside, making more time for self care? When we make a conscious commitment to putting our desires and needs into visual language, when we express ourselves by picking one image out of millions that feels the most correct to our inner selves, we are making a statement. We are telling ourselves what is most important to us, and we are creating a reminder to respect and honor those choices every time we pass by the vision board in our home.

When it comes to setting our intentions, there’s no wrong way to do it. The most important element will always be what feels right to you. However, here are a few ideas that might help you create a vision board if you’re new to the practice or looking for a new approach.

Divide Your Vision Board Into Different Sections

When it comes to vision boards you can be as general or specific as you want, but sometimes it’s helpful to focus on your desires one area at a time. Devote sections to any piece of your life where you want to see growth or change. Personal life, relationships and family goals, career, health and wellness, travel, a move you’re considering; anything that’s on your mind has a place on the board. You can decide the sections beforehand, or find your way to them organically while you’re choosing images. Consider including a section on your vision board for your creative or artistic projects, even if you’re not in a creative field. Everyone has creativity, and everyone can benefit from fostering that side of themselves.

Make a Board for a Milestone, or Any Time You Get Stuck

The beginning of the year is a great time to create a vision board; it’s an inflection point in our lives, a time to reflect on the past 365 days and to think about our hopes moving forward. I make a vision board to start each year as an act of intentionality, but you certainly don’t have to wait for January to start thinking about what you want. I always say: If you feel stuck, either clean out a drawer or make a vision board. If you feel caught in a rut, or things have started to feel stuck and stagnant, taking a moment to think deeply about what you truly want can be a great way to figure out what’s getting in your way.

Include What You’re Grateful For

One of the easiest ways to figure out where we want to go is by looking at all the things we love about where we already are. Noting the elements that are important in your life or things that are already working well, like your relationships, passions, or lifestyle, can help you see areas where you want to invite more growth and expansion and help guide your vision for the future. Be sure to infuse some gratitude into your vision board to balance out the desire.

Look More For Vibes Than Specifics

With a practice that’s so visual, it can be easy to get caught up in the details, worrying about getting the exact right picture of an object or location. Instead of stressing about getting the color right on your dream house, try to focus on the bigger picture, the feelings that each image emits. Look for visuals that resonate abstracts: love, peace, comfort, success, belonging.

Do What Feels Right to You

The most important part of this process is just listening to yourself and doing what you want. Whether you want to pick through old magazines or search online for images related to different words and print them up, there’s no wrong way to make a vision board. The goal is to make something that resonates with you and you alone, encouraging you and focusing your vision.

So many people in life don’t have the luxury to step outside of the everyday, to look around and examine what they really want. So many of us stay locked in survival mode, forced to focus on the decisions right in front of us and not the bigger ones that mandate so much more of our lives. Building in time to reflect on where we want to go is the only way to move from where we are; devoting thought and intention into your future with a tool like a vision board is a great way to build your intuition and keep you mindful of the things you really want.

A good vision board helps you formulate your ideas for what you want out of your life. Every time you pass by it, it can serve as a gentle reminder not to get caught up in the small picture and everyday choices, but to focus on bigger desires as well.

7 Books and Journals To Become A More Mindful Person

CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS | 7 7 Books and Journals To Become A More Mindful Person

Mindfulness is a powerful tool for moving through life with awareness and perspective, but it can be hard sometimes to know exactly what it means to practice mindfulness. At times it can feel like an abstract buzzword, hard to connect to or put into motion. The truth is that mindfulness can help us more meaningfully experience the present and develop a more solid understanding of our own thoughts, and this process can be easier to begin with some guidance and direction. Here are seven books and journals that can help us understand and interact with mindfulness in different ways, helping us to cultivate our ability to stay thoughtful about our present.

Practice You: A Journal by Elena Brower

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A more amorphous, left-brained journal, Practice You‘s watercolor style and gentle, open-ended prompts may help draw some new reflections if you’ve felt blocked or stalled.

The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness: How Mindfulness Can Change Your Life in Ten Minutes a Day by Andy Puddicombe

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A down-to-earth, casual conversation about mindfulness from someone who’s gone through Buddhist monk training more than once, helping you find a new on-ramp for meditation through humor and approachability.

Little Book of Mindfulness: 10 Minutes a Day to Less Stress, More Peace by Patricia Collard

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An easy, approachable guide to increasing mindfulness (and its natural products like gratitude and joy) a little each day by paying more attention to our everyday motions.

Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life by Jon Kabat-Zinn

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A deeper read, Wherever You Go, There You Are walks readers through the process of “waking up” to ourselves in order to live more fully in the present moment.

The Mindfulness Journal: Daily Practices, Writing Prompts, and Reflections for Living in the Present Moment by Barrie Davenport

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This journal emphasizes non-judgmental observation, encouraging us to put aside our conceptions about how we should be thinking, feeling or acting and allowing us to simply pay quiet attention to the truth underneath.

Practicing Mindfulness: 75 Essential Meditations to Reduce Stress, Improve Mental Health, and Find Peace in the Everyday by Matthew Sockolov

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Full of exercises to establish mindfulness as a practice, this book has something different to offer you each time you return to it. Each meditation is easy to understand and states the amount of time it takes, making it easy to find the meditation that suits you best in the moment.

I Am Here Now: A Creative Mindfulness Guide and Journal Paperback by The Mindfulness Project

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A more deconstructed journal, I Am Here Now encourages looseness, playfulness and creativity as it asks us to consider what mindfulness means to us.

8 Crystals That Can Help To Balance Your Spaces

CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS | 8 Crystals That Can Help To Balance Your Spaces

For as long as we’ve been human, we’ve sought out the sacred in nature. Something about crystals, rocks and precious stones has always called to us, whether through their appearance, the vibrations they emit, or something deeper. We are from the earth; it makes sense that keeping pieces of it would bring us comfort and strength.

Connecting with crystals is a deeply personal practice. Anybody who has worked with or collected crystals will tell you that the most important factor when considering a new crystal is your own response to it. You can select crystals for the properties you want to harness, of course, but it’s always just as important that you connect with and feel called to an individual crystal. This connection is what will create the energy in yourself and in your space; a crystal is only as strong as the effect it has on you personally.

Many crystal sellers will encourage you to interact with a crystal physically to learn more about it and see if it’s right for you. However, when this isn’t possible, looking crystals that are offered from different stores online and seeing which ones you spend the most time focusing on can be just as good of a test. We know that crystals are special to the person who owns them, but we also know that different types of crystal can produce and hone different energies and qualities. Here are a few of the most common kinds of crystal and their meanings, so that you can start to cultivate the energy you desire in your spaces.

CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS | Agate Crystal

Agate

Agates can come in a variety of colors and shapes but all of them are useful for providing stability. Agates can heal a lot of internal imbalances like anger and low self-worth, and help to grow strength within. Over time agate can help with confidence and positivity, granting you extra reserves of strength and power.

CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS | Amethyst Crystal

Amethyst

Amethyst is ideal for bringing peace and relaxation, producing feelings of contentment and diffusing tension. It works to undo stress and negativity while quietly giving us a boost in strength and protection. Amethyst can also be a great tool for manifestation, helping us bring our dreams to life when we allow ourselves to focus on them.

CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS | Black Tourmaline Crystal

Black Tourmaline

Tourmaline is a powerful protector, great at expelling negative energy from our spaces and minds. I use black tourmaline all the time because of its ability to act like a shield, protecting me from negativity and harm.

Crystal Quartz

Crystal quartz is unique for its ability to connect— both to us and to other crystals. It links to all of our chakras, bringing us closer to inner harmony. It can clarify our intentions, cleanse our emotions and purify our energy. Crystal quartz can also magnify the vibrations of the crystals around it, helping them to become more effective as well.

Moonstone

Like the moon, this stone has a healing feminine energy. Moonstone is good for stabilizing, softening, and can even quell strong egos, ultimately working to help you obtain balance with yourself and others.

Rose Quartz

Pink in color, rose quartz crystal has a close association with the heart chakra and is great for harnessing loving energy for ourselves, each other, and the world at large. Rose quartz can open our hearts up to extend our love outward, or help gather love to ourselves when we need it most. This influx of love can help to clear out small frustrations and petty grievances, freeing us of negativity.

Selenite

Selenite has a high, pure vibrational energy that can fill spaces with brightness and light. This crystal is the essence of cleansing and purity, washing out staleness, negativity and blockages. Selenite can help us connect to a higher level of consciousness, making us feel elevated and enlightened.

Turquoise

Turquoise’s blue coloring gives it a connection to the throat chakra, responsible for communication. Because of this, turquoise can encourage openness and honesty, even within our own minds. It’s also a strong advocate for health, working to keep your own wellness at the front of your mind.

If you’re interested in learning more about crystals, Energy Muse has a great index of hundreds of crystals and their meanings, as well as a crystal test to see where your intuition guides you and what it means.

If you want to add one of these crystals to your home, you can find our guide to shopping crystals online here.

How To Turn Drinking Tea Into A Meditation Practice

I think there’s a reason tea has such significance in so many different cultures. There’s an intentionality to making tea, the heat of the water, the length of the steep, the brewing of the leaves. It’s its own kind of magic. When I lived in Japan I learned of Japanese tea rituals, where so much thought, patience and time are put into the preparation of just one cup of tea. Everything, the leaves, the bowls and utensils, even the layout of the room is prepared carefully to contribute to the harmony of the space. It’s an exercise in honor for the guests and the host, a practice in community, a way to communicate intention and summon peace.

Some cultures view the act of making tea as a magical one. For centuries the Romani have been staring into their tea leaves to reflect on the future and manifest dreams. Romani believe that saliva is sacred, and that when you drink from a cup of tea you become a part of it as your essence is added to the cup.

There’s something special about the process of making tea. Every cup is a different combination of flavors as unique blends of leaves interact with the heat of the water. You’ll never drink the same cup of tea twice, which makes it such a great exercise in mindfulness and meditation. The act of preparing and drinking tea can be a helpful aid for people who are unused to meditating because of the structure it lends: the grounding action of taking sips and the built-in time frame of finishing the cup can be useful if your thoughts are hard to tame or quiet. Whether you are trying to sharpen your vision of the future or simply stretch out a moment in the present, tea offers us a unique opportunity to put everything aside and reflect on the warmth and flavor until our last sip.

Drinking tea always makes me feel connected to the natural world, more than any other food or beverage, because it allows me to focus on the plants that were carefully plucked out of gardens for their specific flavors and properties. Every plant and herb has something special to offer a brew and each has its own significance and benefits, both physical and spiritual. Green teas are great for your metabolism and energy. Black teas are good for strength, both physical and mental. Peppermint can bring clarity, spearmint brings healing and protection, and both can help settle an upset stomach. Lavender can help bring peace and sleep when you need it most and nothing is better for a sense of loving comfort than hibiscus tea with rose hips. Earl Grey and bergamot bring prosperity, and rooibos is known for its ability to heal. When we make tea we select the blend we need most for a certain moment in time, a practice in considering what we need and allowing ourselves to have it. Tea is such a simple and beautiful act of self love, a quiet moment we give ourselves to experience calm, warmth, and nourishment.

Visiting an artisanal tea shop can be a great use of an afternoon, but the truth is that grocery store teas can just as effective as any more expensive specialty blend. The most important aspect of any tea ritual is the time you’re willing to devote and the faith you’re willing to lend to the minutes you spend drinking your tea.

When reading tea leaves, one of the first steps is to think about a question you want answered or explore where your mind takes you while you drink from your cup. I think this is a great practice to bring into any tea ritual. Giving ourselves a specific outlet to reflect on who we are and what we want can be a powerful act. Think about memories you attach to the specific tea you’re drinking; try to see if the flavors remind you of your childhood home or an old love or a favorite haunt. Use a cup you truly love or treasure to make the event feel more special and sacred to you. The more you give to this time the more it will give back.

I take solace in the fact that, no matter what challenges arise in life, my days will always hold space enough to enjoy a quiet cup of tea on my porch or just before bed, for all the peace and comfort it has to offer.

For more information on the qualities of tea, I recommend this beautiful piece written by Katelan Foisy.