Common Wellness Myths You Should Think Twice About

Common Wellness Myths You Should Think Twice About | CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS

If there’s one thing that’s true about the wellness community, it’s that there are seemingly endless options to improve your life and health. That’s what makes wellness so fun and enticing – there’s always something new around the corner to try! Wellness trends can often be ahead of the curve in terms of mainstream acceptance, which is both exciting and slightly dangerous. It can be difficult to navigate the waters of this booming industry without first understanding the myths that companies may try to sell you on. How do you know what products and companies to trust? We’ve rounded up some of the most common myths that are still passed along in wellness circles and advertising campaigns. We hope this helps to arm you with the information you need to make informed decisions about your health!

Myth #1: Diet shortcuts work

If there’s one thing we can all count on in wellness culture, it’s that there will always be a new trendy diet. And while many people promoting these diets have the best of intentions, some are taking advantage of our desire to find that one quick fix. The best way to find out if a certain diet will work for you is to consult your doctor or a nutritionist, but there are a few ways to vet options before you get that far.

If it sounds too good to be true, it is

If a new supplement or weight loss program is making wild claims about the efficacy of their product, be weary. Especially if these claims promote dropping weight quickly. According to the Mayo Clinic, 1-2 pounds a week is the most you should aim for when losing weight.

“__ free” diets are not as helpful as you’d think

Fat free, gluten free, carb free, or any of those “free” diets are not all that they’re cracked up to be. Unless you have a specific condition or were told by your doctor to restrict something, this kind of philosophy may be detrimental to your health journey. Fat free diets in particular have become widely accepted as a “healthy” way to lose weight. Healthline states that while “this diet may benefit certain individuals with serious health conditions, it’s likely unnecessary for most people”. This is because there are many kinds of healthy fats that are a “major source of calories, build cell membranes and hormones, and help your body absorb fat-soluble vitamins like vitamins A, D, E, and K”.

Myth #2: Antiperspirants cause breast cancer

If you’ve tossed your favorite antiperspirant due to swirling internet rumors that it causes breast cancer, the American Cancer Society wants to ease your fears. They have stated that “there are no strong epidemiologic studies in the medical literature that link breast cancer risk and antiperspirant use, and very little scientific evidence to support this claim”. If you’re worried specifically about aluminum, the active ingredient in many antiperspirants, there is little reason to worry. According to the same statement from the American Cancer Society, “it also doesn’t seem that breast cancer tissue contains more aluminum than normal breast tissue. A study that looked at women with breast cancer found no real difference in the concentration of aluminum between the cancer and the surrounding normal tissue”. In conclusion, you can get rid of that natural deodorant if it’s not working for you.

Myth #3: Collagen in skin care = the fountain of youth

Collagen is a key protein produced by the body to give elasticity to the skin. It’s no wonder that it has become one of the most hyped supplements and skin care additives. Who wouldn’t want a miracle collagen-boosting serum? Unfortunately though, science has not caught up with our love of this anti-aging ingredient. The general consensus in the dermatological community is that collagen, when used topically, doesn’t do much outside of moisturize your skin. It’s not going to fill in fine lines, improve elasticity, or have the same effect at Botox. However, there has been evidence that collagen supplements can slightly improve your overall skin.

Myth #4: Alkaline water is healthier

Alkaline waters, or brands promoting that their specific product has a high pH level, won’t do anything to actually change the pH of your blood. Yes, they may be less acidic, but that’s about it. According to the Cleveland Clinic, “unless you have certain conditions such as kidney or respiratory disease, your body maintains a healthy pH balance on its own”. If buying alkaline waters has been costing you an arm and a leg, rest assured you can return to regular water and get the same level of hydration.

Myth #5: Egg yolks are bad for you

There’s no evidence to suggest that eating an egg yolk as opposed to egg whites is going to significantly increase your cholesterol. In fact, Harvard Health recently analyzed two studies that found that eating eggs may actually lower your risk of heart disease. According to the studies, “those who ate an average of one egg per day had a 28% lower risk of death from stroke and an 18% lower risk of death from heart disease. The researchers suggested that one explanation might be the fact that eggs contain heart-healthy nutrients, such as folate and omega-3 fatty acids”. In other words, Harvard authorities say that next time you’re craving an omelet you should go for it.

Hopefully hearing the truth about these myths will help you create a wellness plan that truly works for you! A healthy amount of skepticism when it comes to new claims is probably the way to go. Ultimately though, wellness is about what makes you feel good. Approaching trends and marketing campaigns with appropriate information is key, but there’s no need to throw out your Essentia bottles if sipping fancy water makes you feel amazing!


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Staycation to the Fullest – LA Edition

Summer is officially here and with that comes the hope of a sun soaked vacation. However, sometimes those dreams can get dashed when life, work, or our wallets get in the way. This is when the art of the staycation comes in handy. If done properly, a staycation can recharge your batteries just as easily as a resort can. No airports required. Check out these tips to make the most out of your summer staycation!

Become a tourist in your own city

This is the obvious first step to taking your staycation to the next level, as well as the most important. Odds are you have done fun activities in your city, but you’ve never really looked at it through the lens of a tourist. No matter where you live, the luster of your city can fade and you can forget what it has to offer. This is the time to reinvigorate your love of your hometown!

Look for:

  • Museums
  • Botanical gardens
  • Events or sports
  • Drive-in or rooftop theaters
  • Theme parks
  • Parks
  • Nature hikes
  • Spas
The Huntington Gardens in Pasadena.

Los Angeles Ideas:

  • LACMA
  • Huntington Gardens
  • Malibu & Santa Monica beaches
  • The Getty
  • The Getty Malibu
  • The Academy Museum
  • La Brea Tar Pits
  • Griffith Park
  • Studio Tours – Warner Bros., Paramount, Universal
  • Descanso Gardens
  • Venice Canals
  • Hollywood Forever Cemetery Cinespia screenings
  • The Greystone Mansion

*Pro tip: If you’re craving a day at a pool with an ice-cold Piña Colada, some hotels offer day passes! You’ll get the full resort experience without the cost of paying for a room. Check out resortpass.com for participating hotels in your area!

Go out for a fancy lunch or dinner

You’ve saved money on flights, gas, hotels, etc., so don’t be afraid to splurge on a nice dinner. Invite friends, take your family, or dine solo! One great way to take this activity up a notch is to find a restaurant out of your normal radius – if you live in the suburbs, head downtown. Or if you really want to feel fancy, find a hotel restaurant! You’ve probably never been to or heard of some of the nice hotel restaurants in your town. Do some research and see what’s out there!

Los Angeles:

  • Cara Restaurant at The Cara Hotel
  • Ardor at the West Hollywood Edition
  • FIG at the Fairmont Miramar
  • Polo Lounge at the Beverly Hills Hotel
  • Bar Lis at Thompson Hollywood
  • Openaire at the Line Hotel
  • Culina Ristorante at the Four Seasons
  • Coast at Shutters on the Beach
  • Broken Shaker at Freehand Los Angeles
  • Calabra Rooftop at the Santa Monica Proper Hotel

*Pro tip: Dress it up! If there’s an outfit or sparkly dress in your closet that you never wear, this is your moment!

Make your home feel like a hotel

Who said you need to leave your home for the resort experience? Prep for you staycation by making little changes that will make your space feel brand new. Here’s a list of suggestions to get you started:

  • Pack your fridge and pantry ahead of time with your favorite summer foods. If you love to cook, make a meal plan with your favorite dishes. If cocktails are your thing, make sure you have all the ingredients whip up your favorite drink. Stock up on fun snacks that you wouldn’t normally buy and give yourself the permission to eat whatever the heck you want!
  • Make a movie night basket. If hitting the movies doesn’t interest you or is out of your budget (some movie tickets in LA are up to $25), give yourself the full theater experience at home! Gather popcorn, snacks, your favorite candy, etc. and have the basket waiting by the TV for when the mood strikes!
  • Create a spa day. This could be as simple as having a new face mask waiting for you at the end of each day! Or using shower steamers that fill up your bathroom with spa-like scents every morning. There are endless possibilities!
  • Make sure you have fresh sheets and a nice pillow spray. There’s nothing better than snuggling into clean sheets, and it you want to add another level of luxury use a pillow spray!
  • Be a little bougie and leave yourself and your partner pillow mints.

What do you think? Will you be staycationing this summer? Let us know what your favorite staycation activities are!


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Staycation to the Fullest – Austin Edition

Summer is officially here and with that comes the hope of a sun soaked vacation. However, sometimes those dreams can get dashed when life, work, or our wallets get in the way. This is when the art of the staycation comes in handy. If done properly, a staycation can recharge your batteries just as easily as a resort can. No airports required. Check out these tips to make the most out of your summer staycation!

Become a tourist in your own city

This is the obvious first step to taking your staycation to the next level, as well as the most important. Odds are you have done fun activities in your city, but you’ve never really looked at it through the lens of a tourist. No matter where you live, the luster of your city can fade and you can forget what it has to offer. This is the time to reinvigorate your love of your hometown!

Look for:

  • Museums
  • Botanical gardens
  • Events or sports
  • Drive-in or rooftop theaters
  • Theme parks
  • Parks
  • Nature hikes
  • Spas
Barton Springs Pool.

Austin Ideas:

  • View the bats at sunset on the South Congress bridge
  • Texas State Capitol
  • Barton Springs Pool
  • Kayaking on Lady Bird Lake
  • Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center
  • McKinney Falls State Park
  • Mt. Bonnell
  • The Domain
  • Blues on the Green at Zilker Park
  • LBJ Presidential Library
  • The Driskill Hotel ghost tour
  • Mural hunting
  • Circuit of the Americas go-karts

*Pro tip: If you’re craving a day at a pool with an ice-cold Piña Colada, some hotels offer day passes! You’ll get the full resort experience without the cost of paying for a room. Check out resortpass.com for participating hotels in your area!

Go out for a fancy lunch or dinner

You’ve saved money on flights, gas, hotels, etc., so don’t be afraid to splurge on a nice dinner. Invite friends, take your family, or dine solo! One great way to take this activity up a notch is to find a restaurant out of your normal radius – if you live in the suburbs, head downtown. Or if you really want to feel fancy, find a hotel restaurant! You’ve probably never been to or heard of some of the nice hotel restaurants in your town. Do some research and see what’s out there!

Austin:

  • Lutie’s at Commodore Perry Estate
  • Central Standard at the South Congress Hotel
  • Garrison at Fairmont Austin
  • Second Bar + Kitchen at the Archer Hotel
  • Café No Se at the South Congress Hotel
  • Caroline Restaurant + Upstairs at Caroline Bar at Aloft Downtown
  • Trace at W Austin

*Pro tip: Dress it up! If there’s an outfit or sparkly dress in your closet that you never wear, this is your moment!

Make your home feel like a hotel

Who said you need to leave your home for the resort experience? Prep for you staycation by making little changes that will make your space feel brand new. Here’s a list of suggestions to get you started:

  • Pack your fridge and pantry ahead of time with your favorite summer foods. If you love to cook, make a meal plan with your favorite dishes. If cocktails are your thing, make sure you have all the ingredients whip up your favorite drink. Stock up on fun snacks that you wouldn’t normally buy and give yourself the permission to eat whatever the heck you want!
  • Make a movie night basket. If hitting the movies doesn’t interest you or is out of your budget (some movie tickets in LA are up to $25), give yourself the full theater experience at home! Gather popcorn, snacks, your favorite candy, etc. and have the basket waiting by the TV for when the mood strikes!
  • Create a spa day. This could be as simple as having a new face mask waiting for you at the end of each day! Or using shower steamers that fill up your bathroom with spa-like scents every morning. There are endless possibilities!
  • Make sure you have fresh sheets and a nice pillow spray. There’s nothing better than snuggling into clean sheets, and it you want to add another level of luxury use a pillow spray!
  • Be a little bougie and leave yourself and your partner pillow mints.

What do you think? Will you be staycationing this summer? Let us know what your favorite staycation activities are!


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Staycation to the Fullest – Chicago Edition

Summer is officially here and with that comes the hope of a sun soaked vacation. However, sometimes those dreams can get dashed when life, work, or our wallets get in the way. This is when the art of the staycation comes in handy. If done properly, a staycation can recharge your batteries just as easily as a resort can. No airports required. Check out these tips to make the most out of your summer staycation!

Become a tourist in your own city

This is the obvious first step to taking your staycation to the next level, as well as the most important. Odds are you have done fun activities in your city, but you’ve never really looked at it through the lens of a tourist. No matter where you live, the luster of your city can fade and you can forget what it has to offer. This is the time to reinvigorate your love of your hometown!

Look for:

  • Museums
  • Botanical gardens
  • Events or sports
  • Drive-in or rooftop theaters
  • Theme parks
  • Parks
  • Nature hikes
  • Spas
Chicago’s Wrigley Field, home of the Cubs.

Chicago Ideas:

  • 360 Chicago Observation Deck
  • Millennium Park & The Bean
  • Wrigley Field
  • The Art Institute of Chicago
  • The Magnificent Mile
  • Buckingham Fountain
  • Navy Pier
  • Frank Lloyd Wright’s Robie House
  • Macy’s on State Street
  • Garrett’s Popcorn
  • Chicago River cruises
  • Museum of Science and Industry
  • Field Museum

*Pro tip: If you’re craving a day at a pool with an ice-cold Piña Colada, some hotels offer day passes! You’ll get the full resort experience without the cost of paying for a room. Check out resortpass.com for participating hotels in your area!

Go out for a fancy lunch or dinner

You’ve saved money on flights, gas, hotels, etc., so don’t be afraid to splurge on a nice dinner. Invite friends, take your family, or dine solo! One great way to take this activity up a notch is to find a restaurant out of your normal radius – if you live in the suburbs, head downtown. Or if you really want to feel fancy, find a hotel restaurant! You’ve probably never been to or heard of some of the nice hotel restaurants in your town. Do some research and see what’s out there!

Chicago:

  • Nico Osteria at the Thompson Hotel
  • Allium Restaurant & Bar at the Four Seasons
  • Boleo at the Kimpton Grey Hotel
  • Travelle at the Langham
  • Shanghai Terrace at the Peninsula Chicago
  • Café des Architectes at Sofitel
  • The Florentine at the JW Marriott
  • 676 Restaurant & Bar at the Omni

*Pro tip: Dress it up! If there’s an outfit or sparkly dress in your closet that you never wear, this is your moment!

Make your home feel like a hotel

Who said you need to leave your home for the resort experience? Prep for you staycation by making little changes that will make your space feel brand new. Here’s a list of suggestions to get you started:

  • Pack your fridge and pantry ahead of time with your favorite summer foods. If you love to cook, make a meal plan with your favorite dishes. If cocktails are your thing, make sure you have all the ingredients whip up your favorite drink. Stock up on fun snacks that you wouldn’t normally buy and give yourself the permission to eat whatever the heck you want!
  • Make a movie night basket. If hitting the movies doesn’t interest you or is out of your budget (some movie tickets in LA are up to $25), give yourself the full theater experience at home! Gather popcorn, snacks, your favorite candy, etc. and have the basket waiting by the TV for when the mood strikes!
  • Create a spa day. This could be as simple as having a new face mask waiting for you at the end of each day! Or using shower steamers that fill up your bathroom with spa-like scents every morning. There are endless possibilities!
  • Make sure you have fresh sheets and a nice pillow spray. There’s nothing better than snuggling into clean sheets, and it you want to add another level of luxury use a pillow spray!
  • Be a little bougie and leave yourself and your partner pillow mints.

What do you think? Will you be staycationing this summer? Let us know what your favorite staycation activities are!


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Your Self-Care Checklist for Difficult Times

It’s no secret that there’s a lot happening in the world right now and that we’ve collectively been through a lot in the past few years. Life can be hard enough without the weight of global tragedies, conflicts, and politics looming overhead. When tumultuous and divisive events are the backdrop to your everyday life, it can make your own personal struggles that much more exhausting. Cue the urge to pull your comforter over your head and shut out the world! And while we all deserve a day in bed at times, there are healthy ways to hold space for the emotions you experience during hard times before you get to that point.

Give yourself grace

When times are difficult you can’t expect yourself to function at 100%. And even if you can carry on like normal, it doesn’t mean you should. Oftentimes the healthiest thing to do is to give yourself permission to slow down and feel your feelings. Setting unrealistic expectations for yourself will only lead to guilt and shame when you (understandably) fall short. Avoid this pitfall by not setting any expectations. Sometimes the bare minimum is more than enough.

Make time for your favorite things

Inject a little comfort into your day by consciously making an effort to do things simply for the fun of it. If needlepoint is your newest hobby, dive in. If re-watching your favorite show for the 5th time brings you comfort, cuddle up on the couch and press play. If baking sweets is your guilty pleasure, bring out the cake mix. It’s important to allow yourself to completely relax and return to the basics. The basics being anything that makes you feel like you’re wrapped in a warm blanket.

Talk it out

When processing our emotions on our own becomes too taxing, it can be helpful to talk things out with trusted friends and family members. If you’re the type of personal that typically holds things in and doesn’t want to “burden” people, this might be particularly important for you. Your friends and family are called your support system for a reason – they are there to lend support! However, if the situation requires more than your support system can provide, it may be helpful to see a therapist. They are trained to guide you through any type of difficulty you may be experiencing.

Focus on what you can control

When times are tough it’s normal to try to grip onto a situation tighter in order to control as much as you can. No one likes to feel powerless. A healthier way of getting through rough waters is to focus on what you can control, not what you can’t. Release your grip on those things that seem to be fighting against you. Make a list of what you can control – such as your actions and how you can take care of yourself. Whenever you feel overwhelmed take the list out and complete an action. There’s nothing better than ticking something off of your to-do list, even if the list is self-care centered. It will make you feel capable and accomplished.

Turn off the news

It’s important to be informed, but if you find yourself checking in on the news to the detriment of your mental health, it may be time for a break. This is especially true when you are dealing with personal issues that may be heavy or stressful. Don’t add fuel to the fire. Take a break from current events or limit the amount you read / watch.

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7 Podcasts to Help You Reach Your Full Potential

7 Podcasts to Help You Reach Your Full Potential | CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS

With series on every topic you could possibly think of, it seems like we’ve entered into the golden age of podcasts. It’s never been more easy to find entertainment, as well as free access to experts and professionals that we otherwise wouldn’t have. There are countless podcasts in the areas of self growth and development, but a few stand out for their unique approach to tackling life’s uphill battles. If you’re in the market for a podcast that will help you reach your full potential – mind, body, and soul – check out these 7 wonderful series led by some of the brightest minds we have.

Huberman Lab with Dr. Andrew Huberman

Dr. Andrew Huberman is a neuroscientist and professor at Stanford University. In his podcast, Dr. Huberman “discusses neuroscience: how our brain and its connections with the organs of our body control our perceptions, our behaviors, and our health” (hubermanlab.com). Don’t mistake Huberman Lab for a dry university lecture though. The podcast breaks down the science in terms of our everyday life, often with the help of incredibly smart guests.

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

Dr. Laurie Santos is a professor of psychology at Yale University, whose course on the psychology of happiness became so popular she turned the concept into a podcast. Prepare to unlearn everything you thought you knew about what makes us humans happy while listening. Dr. Santos’s use of research and storytelling is what makes this podcast so compelling and digestible. It’s for anyone and everyone looking to understand happiness and apply that knowledge to their own lives.

A Slight Change of Plans with Maya Shankar

Maya Shankar is a cognitive scientist and former Senior Advisor to President Obama. During her time in the Obama administration she also founded the White House Behavioral Science Team. In “A Slight Change of Plans”, Shankar uses her expert knowledge to explore how we behave and adapt while facing change. According to the show’s description, she “blends compassionate storytelling with the science of human behavior to help us understand who we are, and who we become, in the face of a big change” .

Work Life with Adam Grant

Adam Grant is an organizational psychologist, author, and professor at the University of Pennsylvania. In “Work Life”, Grant discusses “the science of making work not suck” (adamgrant.net). Making work not suck seems to be an eternal and universal struggle, which is what makes the podcast an essential listen. Everyone can get something out of “Work Life”, even if it’s a momentary reprieve from the “Sunday scaries”.

Throughline

NPR’s Throughline, hosted by Ramtin Arablouei and Rund Abdelfatah, takes a historical approach in analyzing current events. It weaves the past and present, using compelling storytelling to connect the dots between events and cultural shifts that affect the issues we face today. Don’t mistake throughline for your average history podcast! The insights gleaned in each episode probably can’t be found in your old American History textbook.

How to Start Over

In the Atlantic’s “How to Start Over”, “staff writer Olga Khazan analyzes what it takes to change our relationships, our work, and our perspective—with a practical approach to one of life’s greatest mysteries: how to start over” (theatlantic.com). If you’ve been going through major changes recently, or want to make a change, How to Start Over is a great resource. It’s both compelling and practical – the perfect combo for a self help podcast.

The Pivot

Hosted by former NFL players Channing Crowder, Fred Taylor, and Ryan Clark, The Pivot Podcast is all about making changes and moving forward. While centered on interviews with professionals in the sports world, The Pivot is universal in that it focuses on how people accepted change and pivoted their way towards success.

What do you think? Have you found your next binge-worthy podcast? Let us know in the comments and on social media. We would love to hear from you!

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How to Improve Your Body Image This Summer

How to Improve Your Body Image This Summer | CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS

Summer is here, and with the much needed warm weather comes something that many women dread: bathing suit season. As women we have been inundated with messaging, whether that be through social media, magazines, or our own family and friends, that perpetuates the idea that we must get our bodies ‘bikini ready’. That there is only one standard for a bikini body, and it’s a flat stomach and cellulite free thighs. It seems that only in the last few years has there been any kind of shift in our culture to dispel this narrative. And while more companies are using size inclusive models, there is still work to be done to undo the damage that lives in our heads. So where do we begin? As it turns out, body positivity isn’t something that you can turn on with the flip of the switch. It takes work to rewire your thought processes, but it’s the first step towards reclaiming the confidence we all deserve! Keep reading for tips on how to have your best “hot girl summer” yet.

Reframe how you think of your body

Instead of thinking of your body in terms of how it looks, or how you want it to look, try to view it as the vehicle through which you have done amazing things. For example, the Cleveland Clinic recommends appreciating “that your strong arms allow you to carry your child and the diaper bag and the groceries up the stairs in one trip. Or that your skilled hands prepared an amazing dinner”. Your body allows you to do so many wonderful things that we all often take for granted. When we push looks aside and focus on the functionality of our bodies, it’s hard not to be thankful.

Self-talk is everything, so next time you catch yourself looking in the mirror and thinking “I wish my thighs were thinner”, stop for a moment. Think of what your thighs allow you to do every day, even if it’s as simple as picking up your child. Or speeding through the grocery store to feed yourself and your family. Another great way to shift your thoughts into the positive is to turn this moment into a meditation with intentional touch. Touch your legs, and thank them for getting you where you need to go. Touch your stomach, and thank it for digesting your food and bringing nutrients to your body. Touch your hips, and thank them for holding you up even when you’re tired. If you practice this enough times, you can train your brain to make these healthier, happier thoughts the first thing you say to yourself when looking in a mirror.

Keep a list of what you love about yourself handy – that doesn’t include physical aspects

Looks aren’t everything, and even though many of us know this logically, we live in a culture where unfortunately certain looks are valued and praised over others. It’s hard not to compare yourself when you hop on Instagram and see a photoshopped fashion advertisement for the thousandth time that day. Even though it’s clear the photo has been tinkered with, those types of images can bleed into our subconscious and affect our own ideas of beauty. According to the National Eating Disorders Association, one way to combat this is to keep a list of everything you love about yourself handy. A list that does not include any physical aspects. Read it whenever you need to, and keep adding to it. You have a limited number of body parts, but an endless amount of strengths to appreciate and keep building upon.

Reframe how you think of exercise

Every Spring, like clockwork, magazines and health gurus go on campaigns to push new “beach body” workouts or cleanses. It’s a race to get rid of those extra few pounds you may have put on in the winter, and it further perpetuates the notion that we constantly need to be “fixing” or “improving” our bodies. If you’re already not a fan of exercise, this can make the idea of it too daunting to conquer. And we can’t wait for companies and our culture in general to reframe why exercise is so important. We have to start with ourselves. We have to start seeing physical fitness as a lifelong activity that we don’t do to reach a certain goal weight, but to boost our moods and keep our bodies running smoothly. According to Medical News Today, researchers have found that “people who exercise for functional reasons, such as for fitness, tend to have a more positive body image. Those who exercise to improve their appearance feel less positive about their bodies”. Simply switching your thinking around why you are exercising might help you to start rebuilding your relationship with your body.

Realize that the word “healthy” is somewhat relative

You can’t rely solely on a scale, workout guide, or new cleanse to tell you how healthy you are, because everyone is different. The National Eating Disorders Association has emphasized that “your “ideal” body weight is the weight that allows you to feel strong and energetic and lets you lead a healthy, normal life. For example, when your body is healthy and at its ideal body weight, you are not too tired and you have the energy to interact with friends and family, participate in sports, and concentrate on school or work”. In other words, you can pursue your dreams wholeheartedly. Using the measurement of your quality of life over the number on a scale is a much better way to gauge where you are at.

Cleanse your social feeds

Sometimes the best way to cleanse negative thoughts is to cleanse your feeds. Social media is meant to be fun and add connection to your life, not detract from it. If there are accounts that make you feel less than, or trigger body image issues, hit unfollow. Maybe some accounts don’t bother you personally, but they contribute to problems with inclusivity in the fashion and entertainment industries. That’s also a great reason to unfollow. Change isn’t going to happen unless we raise our voices.

We hope these tips have given you the confidence to start loving yourself a little bit more. You’ve probably heard this before, but it’s worth repeating: anyone with a body has a bikini body. You are bikini ready just the way you are. There’s a reason women made the phrase “hot girl summer” a thing. It’s because it’s a state of mind! Your hot girl summer is happening right now so get out there and reclaim your body image. The power is in your hands.


If you’ve tried these tips to no avail, or find yourself obsessing over your body to the point of extreme weight loss or social isolation, there is help out there. You don’t need to suffer in silence. Visit nationaleatingdisorders.org for more information.

6 TV Shows That Will Make You Think

6 TV Shows That Will Make You Think | CARIE ANN CONVERSATIONS

Sometimes we don’t want to think when we watch TV. Over the past couple of years we’ve used it as an escape from the unbelievable circumstances happening in the world and in our own lives. However, TV can also be a useful teaching tool, and a way to examine our problems in a safe, creative way. TV holds up a mirror to our culture whether we like it or not, and is something that can permeate our lives and start necessary conversations. If you’re in the market for a show that will spark conversation at your next social gathering, check out this list of 6 TV shows that will make you think. You never know what lessons can be learned from your living room.

“Brené Brown: Atlas of the Heart” – HBO Max

Why read the book when you can watch the movie? Or in this case, the series. Emotions researcher and author Brené Brown delivers the biggest takeaways from her latest book, “Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience”, in this HBO Max series. Brown will take you through the emotions that unite us all, and why we need to expand our emotion vocabulary in general.

“Severance” – Apple TV+

What if you could live two separate lives – a work life and a personal life – that never intersect? What if you could forget your personal life at work, and vice versa? This is the concept that “Severance” so brilliantly explores. With so many life changing events happening in the world right now, this show couldn’t be more aptly timed. Haven’t we all wondered what it would be like if the different parts of our lives never mixed?

https://youtu.be/tGtaHcqsSE8

“Maid” – Netflix

“Maid” is a raw and poignant look at the realities of being in an abusive relationship. It is based on a true story, and follows a young woman through her struggles to leave her abuser and take care of her child independently. It’s a very eye opening and honest portrayal of what psychological abuse can look like, and why it is so difficult to recognize and leave.

https://youtu.be/KcI_xfryMD0

“Our Great National Parks” – Netflix

After Obama’s two terms in office it was big news when his next move was to make a deal with Netflix! We are finally seeing some of the fruit of that deal with “Our Great National Parks”. It’s probably the easiest to watch out of all of the shows listed, but will make you look at the beauty that is in your own backyard with a renewed sense of wonder.

“Not So Pretty” – HBO Max

“Not So Pretty” is a docuseries that gives a real and unforgiving look into the dark side of the beauty industry. It explores how some of our everyday products – like skincare – may actually be doing more harm than good. Narrated by Keke Palmer, “Not So Pretty” will make you think twice about the chemicals you use on your body every day.

“Persona – The Dark Truth Behind Personality Tests” – HBO Max

This documentary peels back the curtain behind personality tests, like the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. It makes the argument that while these types of tests can be very helpful for self-discovery, they can also be extremely harmful and unfair when used in the working world. “Persona” grapples with the insidious and possibly discriminatory nature of something that is commonly seen as benign and fun. It’ll make you question everything you thought you knew about the world of personality tests.

Which show interests you the most? If you’ve seen any of these, what are your thoughts? Let us know in the comments below or find us at @carrieannconversations on Instagram! We’d love to hear from you.

8 Female Founded Beauty Brands to Support Now

8 Female Owned Beauty Brands to Support Now | CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS

The global beauty industry is a force to be reckoned with – just last year, it was worth $511B, and is only trending upwards (commonthreadco.com). As women, we’ve never had so many options, and it can be an overwhelming process to choose which brands you’d like to throw down your hard earned cash for. Especially now that many of us want the brands that we support to stand for something, have ethical practices, and curb their carbon footprint. Given the growing number of beauty companies out there, as consumers we want what we wear, use, and recommend to our friends to align with our values, and I’ll say it, our personal brand. Whether we’d like to admit it or not, we all project a certain image to the world and have the ability to influence our communities, however small they may be. One easy way to narrow down the abundance of choice is to support female and minority owned brands. What’s better than women supporting women? The brands below are all founded by women, are vegan and cruelty free, and make sustainability a priority. I hope you find your next obsession!

Susan Yara – Naturium

Before Yara became a full fledged business owner, she garnered a loyal following for her skincare focused YouTube channel, Mixed Makeup. Using her knowledge from working in the beauty industry for many years, Yara created a space on the internet for skincare enthusiasts, beginners, and experts alike. Her brand, Naturium, is ingredient focused and formulates affordable products that beat out their pricy contenders any day.

Selena Gomez – Rare Beauty

Actress and singer Selena Gomez is the founder and face behind beauty’s latest obsession, Rare Beauty. Beyond making beautiful formulas that melt into the skin, they strive to “[break] down unrealistic standards of perfection”. They’re all about enhancing your natural beauty and promoting the idea that you are one of a kind, and perfect just the way you are. Rare beauty also sets themselves apart by advocating for mental health care access through their Rare Impact Fund. The goal of the fund is to “raise $100M over the next 10 years to help give people access to mental health services”. What more could you want from a brand? Plus, their gorgeous packaging doesn’t hurt!

Miranda Kerr – KORA Organics

Founded by supermodel Miranda Kerr, KORA uses certified organic ingredients and potent actives to make high quality skincare products. By the way, they don’t just tout the word organic because it’s trendy – they put their money where their mouth is. Their products “are formulated with highly active certified organic and naturally derived ingredients that are rich in antioxidants, vitamins and essential fatty acids. [They] work with leading chemists to find the most effective and innovative organic ingredients from around the world” (koraorganics.com). If you’re an organic food queen and want to make the switch in your skincare as well, KORA is a great place to start.

Rihanna – Fenty Skin

If you are someone that wears makeup, chances are you’ve heard of Fenty Beauty. Rihanna’s line is a favorite for many – her Gloss Bomb lip luminizer has a hold on me that isn’t letting go any time soon. Rihanna has been steadily expanding the brand, and most recently added a skincare line that is a hit. What makes the products unique is their thoughtful formulation, which isn’t found in many celebrity skincare lines. You can tell that Rihanna doesn’t just slap her name on anything. Fenty uses antioxidant rich fruits, like the Barbados cherry (Rihanna’s home country, btw), along with other cutting edge ingredients that pack big results. This is a line that any skin care enthusiast can get behind.

Liah Yoo – KraveBeauty

KraveBeauty was founded by YouTuber and skincare connoisseur Liah Yoo out of a desire to make skincare as simple as possible. Their slogan “#pressreset” says it all. Their products are formulated with sensitivity as well as efficacy in mind. As they state on their website, “we never wanted to be the “million step routine” brand or the “launch 20 products at once” brand. We didn’t want to fit the mold, we wanted to break”. If you’ve gone a little wild with your routine and need to pare it down, Krave might be the brand for you!

Marianna Hewitt & Lauren Gores – Summer Fridays

Marianna Hewitt and Lauren Gores built Summer Fridays with the intention of filling the gaps in skincare that they noticed as beauty influencers. In their own words, they were “left desiring a line of products that ticks all the boxes: easy-to-use, clean ingredients, immediately satisfying, and so pretty you’d want them on display”. It’s safe to say that Summer Fridays checks these boxes. Their products not only look they deserve a place on your skincare shelf, but work like they do too.

Winnie Harlow – Cay Skin

Following a “a severe sunburn and sun damage from an all-day outdoor photoshoot, that permanently changed her [autoimmune condition] vitiligo”, supermodel Winnie Harlow began creating her own skincare line, Cay Skin (cayskin.com). The company combines the best of both worlds – sun protection and skincare – to formulate products that nourish the skin while keeping those UV rays at bay. Next time you’re in the market for tanning oil, you might want to reach for Cay Skin’s SPF 45 version. It’ll leave you glowing and moisturized, but above all, protected.

Olamide Olowe & Claudia Teng – Topicals

Topicals was founded by Gen-Z entrepreneurs Olamide Olowe and Claudia Teng, both of whom decided to forego medical school after college and team up to build their own brand. Topicals treats skin concerns in style, but don’t be deceived by their candy colored packaging. Their treatments pack a punch, and were carefully developed due to Olowe and Teng’s personal experiences with skin conditions. According to a CNBC profile, Olowe grew up “with hyperpigmentation and post barbae folliculitis, a type of skin inflammation”. Similarly, Teng “spent her childhood in and out of doctor’s offices seeking treatment for her severe eczema”. If there’s anyone I would trust to create an effective skincare line, it’s two ambitious young women who have experienced severe skin conditions themselves.

6 Books to Ignite Your Mind

5 Books to Ignite Your Mind | CARRIE ANN CONVERSATIONS

Ready for a book that’ll make you think? Look no further! With the influx of self-help gurus and thought leaders creating followings on social media, it can be difficult to discern who to trust, and who has the research to back up their ideas. All of the authors listed are professionals who research and teach for a living, and are super-stars in their respective fields. If you’ve exhausted Malcolm Gladwell’s catalogue, or are eager to learn something new, I guarantee you’ll love one of these picks.

1. Emotional Agility – Susan David, Phd.

Susan David is a Harvard Medical School psychologist. In “Emotional Agility” she dives into how we can better understand our thoughts, emotions, and patterns in order to “get unstuck, embrace change, and thrive in work and life” (susandavid.com). If you’re curious, David also has an active instagram account where she breaks down the ideas in her book in a digestible way. She’s also been a guest on Brené Brown’s podcast, as well as Dax Shepard’s Armchair Expert.

2. Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind – Yuval Noah Harari

Yuval Noah Harari is a historian and philosopher. If you’ve ever wondered about the origin of the human species and how we evolved, this book is for you. It is an entertaining and extensive look into the journey of mankind. Look at it like a crash course in anthropologie, filled with tidbits you can keep in your back pocket for dinner parties.

3. Think Again – The Power of Knowing What You Don’t Know – Adam Grant

Adam Grant is an organizational psychologist and professor. He studies “the science of motivation, generosity, original thinking, and rethinking” (adamgrant.net). “Think Again” examines the importance of the ability to unlearn and relearn, and the possibilities that come from keeping an open mind. Grant also utilizes social media and podcasts to get his ideas out – if you love the book, check out his own podcast, WorkLife with Adam Grant.

4. The Power of Regret – How Looking Back Moves Us Forward – Daniel Pink

Daniel Pink is a New York Times Bestselling Author and former chief speech writer for Vice President Al Gore. His latest book, “The Power of Regret”, dives into the psychology and research behind how “we can transform our regrets in a positive force for working smarter and living better” (danpink.com). Pink takes a daunting topic that many people wouldn’t want to touch, and transforms it into a useful tool. If regret is something you’ve been struggling with, this might be the book for you!

5. Dopamine Nation – Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence – Dr. Anna Lembke

Dr. Anna Lembke is a psychiatrist and Chief of the Stanford Addiction Medicinal Dual Diagnosis Clinic. In her New York Times best-seller, Lembke explores “why the relentless pursuit of pleasure leads to pain. Most important, she tells readers how to find the delicate balance between the two” (annalembke.com). Addiction surrounds us, and may be affecting your life more than you think. From social media to sugar, addiction takes many forms and Lembke has put the work in to figure out how to lead a more balanced life.

6. Atlas of the Heart – Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience – Brené Brown

Brené Brown is a professor and researcher of emotions, shame, empathy, courage, and vulnerability. Her latest book, “Atlas of the Heart”, explores emotions that define the human experience, and how to make meaningful connections. If you can’t get enough of this book or want the movie version instead, check out Brown’s HBO Max series of the same name. It’s like a 5 episode Ted Talk.